{"id":462,"date":"2012-10-22T21:21:17","date_gmt":"2012-10-23T01:21:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/joangarry.com\/?p=462"},"modified":"2022-08-01T13:55:30","modified_gmt":"2022-08-01T17:55:30","slug":"executive-session","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/joangarry.com\/executive-session\/","title":{"rendered":"What is an Executive Session? And Who Belongs at the Table?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Perhaps this is a faulty premise to start with but go with&nbsp;me. You&#8217;re on a board of a nonprofit. The fiduciary buck stops with you. You are going to raise money, provide strategic oversight, and provide financial stewardship. I would conclude that&nbsp;you are, by virtue of all these things, a grownup.<\/p>\n<p>And then there are stories like this.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s an executive session and talking about the CEO review. The CEO is not present. A board member makes some negative comments about performance. The board member is asked if he made those clear on his CEO evaluation. Answer? &#8220;No, I was afraid the CEO would recognize my handwriting.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m right. Faulty premise, eh?<\/p>\n<p>So why have an executive session at a board meeting and does the CEO always sit outside in the dark (even when it is light out)?<!--more--><\/p>\n<h2>WHAT IS AN EXECUTIVE SESSION FOR ANYWAY?<\/h2>\n<p>Before I answer that I must confess that, with the exception of an annual review discussion (the one above that involved the possibility of handwriting analysis), I have never participated in an executive session in&nbsp;which a single bit of conversation could have or should have happened without the CEO present.<\/p>\n<p>What the heck are they for anyway? Boards mistakenly think that it is an opportunity to raise concerns about the CEO or some senior staff person in a &#8216;safe&#8217; space. Or that they just must have one at every board meeting and there&#8217;s no real agenda and it devolves into a dish session.&nbsp;These same boards lift the cone of silence, call the CEO back in, and say not word one about the conversation that has been had.<\/p>\n<p>So much for building a partnership rooted in trust at that organization.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s why you need them.&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.boardsource.org\/\">Board Source<\/a> clinically offers the following rationale: (1) they assure confidentiality, (2) they create a mechanism for board independence and oversight, and (3) they enhance relationships among board members and with the chief executive. OK, so let&#8217;s set (3) aside as this refers to executive sessions WITH the CEO and let&#8217;s set aside (1) because as mentioned earlier, you just need one big baby on your board (and there is always one) and the CEO will get a full debrief anyway.&nbsp;So you are left with &#8220;to create a mechanism for board independence and oversight.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>OK, then so, as they say on Project Runway, when is the CEO in?&nbsp; And when is she out?<\/p>\n<h2>TIPS FOR BOARD MEMBERS ABOUT SESSIONS WITHOUT THE CEO<\/h2>\n<p>You want to know when you exclude the CEO? Here&#8217;s the list:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The annual audit<\/li>\n<li>Annual performance review of the CEO<\/li>\n<li>Discussion of CEO compensation<\/li>\n<li>Legal issues regarding the CEO<\/li>\n<li>Board practices, behavior, performance issues<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>That&#8217;s about it.<\/p>\n<p>But even if you&#8217;re dealing with one of the above, absolutely make sure you do the following:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>In planning the meeting, share with your CEO the agenda for that session<\/li>\n<li>After the CEO returns, update the CEO on the nature of the discussions.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>TIPS FOR CEO&#8217;S WHEN YOUR BOARD IS IN THE CONE OF SILENCE<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>You have a right to know what the agenda is for any executive session in which you will be excluded<\/li>\n<li>In the spirit of partnership and teamwork, you should be provided with a summary of the nature of the discussion.<\/li>\n<li>Try to be a grownup. Assume that the executive session is running smoothly and that the discussion is in the best interest of the organization.<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t push the big baby on the board to tell you exactly what happened.&nbsp; That means you&#8217;re a big baby too.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>EXECUTIVE SESSIONS ARE WILDLY MISUSED<\/h2>\n<div>Time and again I hear that they become useless bitch sessions about staff and nothing actionable or productive comes from them.&nbsp; Worse still, the CEO sits outside, assumes that it is a bitch session and wonders what nasty things are being said that he \/ she is not being given the opportunity to defend or address.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Used judiciously, executive sessions are an important tool in board governance.&nbsp; Otherwise, ask yourself every time you open your mouth in an executive session:&nbsp; &#8220;Why couldn&#8217;t I just say this when the CEO is here?&nbsp; And shouldn&#8217;t she just hear this directly from me?&#8221;&nbsp; If you don\u2019t have a good answer to this question, then you\u2019re just being a big baby.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>  What are these executive sessions and when are CEOs in and when are they out.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":595355,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[38,15,30,16,37],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-462","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-first-rate-board-meetings","category-board","category-board-relationship","category-ceo","category-structure-policy"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v24.9 (Yoast SEO v24.9) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>What is an Executive Session? 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