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They say that patience is a virtue. I don\u2019t know who \u2018they\u2019 are, but I have never been entirely onboard with that. The reason is pretty simple.<\/p>\n
Because nonprofit staff, board, volunteers, donors \u2013 I believe them to be society\u2019s real heroes. Heroes like you. I consider you virtuous. But patient? Not so much.<\/p>\n
Allow me to tease this out for you. For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve been unable to sit on the sidelines. You have been propelled to jump on the field. It may have started early on. Maybe you stood up for someone being bullied. Or shared your lunch at school with someone who said they forgot it (but you knew better).<\/p>\n
I know you because I have been you. And in my work to fuel and feed your leadership, I feel this same sense of impatience. If I come up with one piece of practical advice in a private coaching session, I am a woman with a mission to share that advice in a blog post with you. Sometimes I can barely wait.<\/p>\n
So I get it.<\/p>\n
And I know you do too. Impatience fuels you, doesn\u2019t it? In a way, it\u2019s your superpower. It drives you to advocate for a cause, right a wrong, help a neighbor, level the playing field, fight for what is fair and just. Patient? Not you. Otherwise you might have sat on the sidelines instead of jumping on the field. This kind of work DEMANDS impatience.<\/p>\n
Yes, impatience is<\/em> your superpower.<\/p>\n Just not today.<\/p>\n Today, the day after a Presidential election that is too close to call, you need patience. And a big healthy dose of it. You went to bed not knowing. You woke up not knowing. And we are in for more not knowing.<\/p>\n It\u2019s uncomfortable and unsettling. I\u2019m sorry. I know you don\u2019t live easily in this space. Me neither.<\/p>\n So my post today is not long and not complicated. I\u2019m writing it because it might help you. And if I write it down, maybe I\u2019ll help myself too. Because I\u2019m struggling with staying patient today.<\/p>\n So what can we do with all that impatience we\u2019re feeling? We can work to be as patient as we can. AND we need to point all our impatience toward productive pursuits.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s start with patience. Last night I went to bed promptly at 11 and got lost in a novel for an hour. On a Kindle, not an IPad. Difference? My mind could drift but I couldn\u2019t google anything. Fuel your patience with a walk or with music. Go look at something beautiful. Can you just sit outside in the sunlight with your eyes closed for 10 minutes, if it\u2019s warm enough? I\u2019d say exercise but I work out and even I can\u2019t even imagine getting on the elliptical.<\/p>\n I asked members of my online community, the Nonprofit Leadership Lab<\/a>, to help me put together a Spotify playlist I could share with you. It\u2019s music about patience. Waiting. Hope.<\/p>\n